I agree with Tgal - ANA Negative Lupus is occurring more and more often, so doctors should not dismiss the diagnosis based solely upon a negative ANA.
While all of your issues do sound like they could be the symptoms of an auto-immune disorder, we cannot say which (if any) issue you are presenting with. Since your doctor thinks that it could be Lupus, I hope that he/she has decided to provide treatment for your symptoms so that you can get some form of relief.
I wish you the very best and please keep us posted.
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