Oh Kim - I'm so sorry!!!! That sounds absolutely horrible. You must be redlining stress, but you still sound upbeat and caring.... ((((hugs))))
Mikaela will get through this - as hard as it is on her (and everyone else) - at least it is a relatively minor medical procedure and you can only do so much about the drama around it. It is what it is....difficult but thank goodness it wasn't something serious, right? The pain will get better soon...young people heal so fast.
Hopefully you will be recovered by the time your husband needs surgery...I don't know the details but it is really amazing what they can do with heart problems nowadays - I know 3 people who have had pretty major procedures and while it was no walk in the park, in the long run it has made a HUGE positive difference in their lives.
Good news on the housing - that should relieve stress for all of you.
Lots of hurdles you are jumping right now...just think about the ones behind you already, and try to lift yourself over the one just in front of you. Before you know it, there will be more you've cleared than you still have to jump. : - )
And eat chocolate....plenty of chocolate....