Welcome to our WHL family and congratulations on your marriage.
Unfortunately, we cannot say if you do or do not have an auto immune issue. However, the symptoms that you've described are symptoms that many of us with Lupus (and other AI disorders) suffer from. I am sorry that you are suffering so much now and I hope that you get some answers and appropriate treatment soon. I wish you the very best and please feel free to come to us with any questions or concerns or if you just need to talk.
Peace and Blessings
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