It is a very long journey, to get a diagnoses, especially when it comes to Lupus.
You have alot of Lupus symptoms, for sure, but it could also be another AI ( Autoimmune disease). The only thing you can do for now, is to wait for your blood test results.
If it is Lupus, you will have to find a Rheumatologist, who will find the best treatment for you.
Don't be scared, if it is Lupus, you will deal with it, just as you are dealing with Raynauds and your gyn issues. We are here for you.
Even though it is a scary diagnoses, you'll be surprised, how well you will adjust.
Good luck on your blood test results.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).