Hi Trudy ( reminds me of Monk, the show)
Welcome to WHL.
I am glad that you have found us. You will find this forum very helpful, for mind and soul. As you said, we do understand what you are going through, we are all in the same boat.
If you have any questions, just ask.
What kind of meds have you tried? Did you find anything, that helped?
My name is Debbie, I am 57 years old, was diagnosed with Lupus in Nov. 2006, a year later I was diagnosed with RA and last year Sjogrens joined in. The only medication, that has ever helped me, was MTX, I use the injections. I also take Mobic, Fexeril, Folic acid, Medrol and Ambien.
Hope you will feel at home here, as much as I do.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).