You are lucky to live in such a big area. The lupus foundation is in LA try Lupus.org. When I was diagnosed my primary care doctor said too bad you don't live in LA, they have lots of support groups. I don't know of any but contact the foulndation and they will tell you of them.
My area doesn't have support groups too small of an area.
I've had fatique for 6 years. I push myself everyday, and rest or nap daily to get thru each day.
Good luck with the support groups.