hi tiffany, many people are able to readjust, with medication. this means that many people are not in the position that your is in. unfortunately some of us do have severe problems.... lupus is so unpredictable. the sooner that medication begins..... the less change that lupus can damage organs. I have added a couple of threads that may help your friends understand some of your issues. http://forum.wehavelupus.com/showthr...e-spoon-theory . . http://forum.wehavelupus.com/showthr...hout-CFS-Fibro-… hopefully with a correct balance of medications you will still lead a fairly normal life, (it will be different to what it used to be... but hopefully still normal).
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