I can truly understand your frustration. If she wants a long stream of clean urine tests, then perhaps she should start doing some studying about nephritis, spherocytosis, and kidney infection so that she will no longer be confused and able to give you a definite answer to your possibly becoming pregnant. You may have to insist that she find a way to understand so that she can assist you in your wish to have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.
At times, we have to be pro-active with our health care providers and we have to tell them what we want them to do for us. Often, when we do that, our doctors will follow our instructions and do everything that they can to help us reach our goals.
I wish you the very best.
Peace and Blessings
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