I am glad that your hemoglobin level has gone up (up is up and that is good). Fortunately, you are intelligent enough to know that you do not have to go by what the nurse says. You know your body, you know what your body needs. Keep staying on top of your health and continue learning as much as you can about your illness and how it affects you. Also, know that we are here to help you as much as we can and for as long as you need us. I wish you the best.
Peace and Blessings
Look For The Good and Praise It!