Welcome to WHL.
You DID come to right place for understanding, because we do understand. We are all in the same boat.
I am very sorry, that you are feeling depressed. Don't ever think you won't find a man, because you have Lupus. May I ask how old you are? We have alot of young people here and most of them have boyfriends or husbands. The right one will come along and he won't care, that you have Lupus.
How long have you had Lupus and what kind of meds are you on?
We will be here for you. If you like, tell us a little about you.
I am looking foreward to get to know you better. Hugs
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).