Hi all!

My name is Kristy and I'm a young woman living with lupus. I've been dating a really great guy for awhile now and I want to make sure that I have conversations with him about me being sick now so that he has a chance to process everything before I have a flare up. I've had this be an issue in the past, and I wanted to reach out to you all and see if there were any suggestions you have for me.

Are there any conversations you think might be helpful? We're trying to be pretty open about the whole thing, but as this is my first serious relationship post-diagnosis I'm trying to be as prepared as possible.

Thanks all!