The spoon theory is the greatest idea EVER! Nothing has illustrated the way we feel better than the spoon theory. I've yet to meet anyone who doesn't understand the spoon theory. Speaking of the spoon theory, I really should get a bouquet of spoons for me desk at work... but I digress. Anyhow, my advice is to be honest. With the guy and yourself. If he suggests doing something you know you couldn't do, don't push yourself and try to convince yourself you can because it is just going to bite you. You could introduce to our site or share any books or brochures you have on Lupus with him. Let him know he can ask you anything. He may have a lot of questions, he may not have any at all but let him know the door is always open.
"I'm going to get healthy or die trying"