Hello and welcome to our family. While I am so sorry to hear that you are going through so much with this disease, I am very happy that you found us and decided to join us.
I cannot give you better information/advice than what you have received (especially about the fact that there is no cure, only treatments and, with treatment and appropriate lifestyle changes, you can live a long and productive life with Lupus). I just wanted to make sure that you know that we are here 24/7 if you need information, research, support, comfort, or just want to vent. Again...welcome.
Peace and Blessings
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