i presume you are a male with the first name arthur.
if i am wrong.....
whilst they say lupus is a womans desease.....
we know very different.
2 of the moderators here are male.
and we have quite a few male family members.
everyone here is treated as family.
we are all in this together.
please let us know a little about yourself.
one of the easy ways is on your profile page.
please read mine to learn a little about me.