males tend to have a very different way of understanding.

asamale who has lupus.....
this has helped me.

http://notdoneliving.net/openletter/cfsfibro


http://forum.wehavelupus.com/showthr...-Fibro-…

the first link is for the origionalweb site.
the second link is the same thing, i wrote it out on this site.

i use it often when talking to people.......
because i understand it and can relate to it.
hopefully your husband can relate to it also.