I don't know much about Chil. Lupus, so I apologize for the uninformative reply. But, I wanted to welcome you to WHL.
There are many young people here (I'm 20), so I want you to know, we feel your pain! Everyone here was (and is) frazzled quite frequently, and this is a great place to find support and recieve personal advice from people suffering just like you.
Hopefully someone with more knowledge than I will reply to your question soon.
"Rule number one is, don't sweat the small stuff. Rule number two is, it's all small stuff."
Dx: Potential Lupus, Diffuse Systemic Sclerosis, Mixed Connective Tissue Disease
Rx: Prednisone 5mg 1x daily, Lyrica 75mg 2x daily, Omeprazole 200mg 1x daily, Xanax .5mg prn