As was previously mentioned, many women have had babies with lupus and pregnancy often "protects" you from severe flare ups. See your ob as soon as possible. You can take unisom or Tylenol pm to help you sleep if you need to. It won't hurt your baby. Most importantly try to relax. Your baby needs a nice calm environment to grow big and strong. My son is 4 mos old and was diagnosed with lupus after having him but now, retrospect had it the whole time untreated. So just know that you can do this, be proactive with your dr appts and get some rest!
Graves Disease 2007, Ceilac's Disease 2008, Lupus 2012.
"Не дай мне Бог сойти с ума."
God, please don't blow my mind. - Aleksandr Pushkin