My family is a very close-knit one and we feel deeply for one another. My first cousin lost his wife (she was only 40 yrs old) and our family buried her yesterday. They had scarcely gotten home from the graveside when my cousin received a call that his brother (who couldn't make the trip from North Carolina to Texas) passed away. He was 46. To lose your wife and your brother within 4 days of each other is devastating; the entire family is consumed with grief. My husband is worried that my sorrow will set me back since I am in the midst of a flare and I guess I should be too. But I am grieving just the same. How do you reign that in? I know that only God can bring comfort and I am asking for prayer for me and my family. Thank you for having this section of the forum so that I can share freely. I love WHL.