That fear is why I ended up staying with someone who wasn't right for me for 2 years. He was always pretty understanding of the lupus part of my life. I do that to myself, but I mean chicks our age do that about everything. Something like lupus is just one more thing guys will have to accpet when they date people like us, and if they cant they aren't worth it anyway. Its hard for young guys to get it all the time though. They are in their prime and we cant do everything the same way they can. There are guys though. If they care they will be understanding of her lupus.
"A bad cold wouldn't be so annoying if it weren't for the advice of our friends."~ Kin Hubbard
Diagnosed: SLE, Raynauds, InterstitialLung Disease, GERD, Myositis, Vasculitis, Possible Sjogrens.
Medications: 400mg Plaquenil, 2000mg Cellcept, 10mg Norvasc, Nitroglycerin Patch, 20mg Prilosec, 10mg Flexeril, 4mg Medrol, 81mg Asprin.