Welcome to WHL.
A recent diagnoses of Lupus is overwhelming at times, that is normal. Most of us have gone through it.
But it will get better, as you get used to the idea, get the right meds and start understanding what having Lupus means to you.
Are you on any meds?
If you have any questions, go ahead and ask.
BTW, I am 55 and feel like 95, I am in a bad flare right now.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).