Stay away from him, since you are happy with our female rheumy.
When I first saw my present rheumy, he had gotten all my medical records from my first theumy. The first thing he said was, " we already know that you have RA and Lupus, so we will not waste time to get your blood tested again, we all know that RA and Lupus are not curable." He just wanted to start treatment, to see what would help me.
I think that is also important to you, that you get treatment.
I may have been dealt a bad hand, but at least I'm still playing with a full deck. ( most of the time anyway).