Welcome to WHL GeoKasher. You have found a great group of people to share your (for lack of better words) pain, anger, frustration, etc. This is also a great site to gain information about Lupus that many of our doctors have been in the dark about.
I have found this group of wonderful people to be non-judgmental. They have had several opportunities to judge my mood swings, craziness, and utter saddness/depression, but instead of judging me, they have comforted me with their kind words of compassion, love and concern. I love this group so much because they KNOW what we go through. They are not guessing or giving their opinions. They actually KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT.
So, GeoKasher, I welcome you to WHL again. (I am from Phila, PA).