Do NOT feel guilty! You did NOT give it to her. You gave her love, you gave her presents, you may have given her a hard time now and again but you did NOT give her Lupus. If one had the ability to "give" lupus, I'm sure I speak for the majority of us when I say in that case we'd "give" it away!
I'm sorry you and your daughter are going through this. It certainly isn't any fun. Keep coming back to WHL and have your daughter do so as well. Here you'll find a lot of love and support and a lot of laughs too!
"I'm going to get healthy or die trying"