well sarah my 23 year got test results back today she has positively tested for lupus she will be seeing my rheumi on friday i have long since suspected this but it does not make me feel any better looks like my mother gave it to me and then i gave it to sarah it was my worse fear with everything else that is going on with her looks like her fast pulse rate seizures, chest , pain bladder problems fatigue, joint pain,cold sores the diziness headaches, endimetriosis brain fog it is all linked and as she was told it was in her head just like many of us she also suffers from lung problems, i know we like to have things in common with our children but this is not one of them i am so sad for her thanks for listening everybody. looks like there just may be a genetic link after all for some people. hugs kim l