I am reading all of this saying, "omgosh are you kidding?" I'm trying to decide if I am just a big baby, if its the fibromyalgia messing with pain receptors, or if God was highly unfair and you could just get up after spitting a baby out and finish dinner! I was begging God when after pushing for 4 hrs after a long hard 21 hr labor, PLEASE GET IT OUT! All four births were horrible! You Lucky stinkers!