A nice warm welcome to our family of WHL and nice to have you with us, yes we're all open to one another and full support is given in which way possible...as we're the suffers not the doctor's.
Take no notice of that comment it's all in your head so many have had that throwed at them besides myself, it's the Doctor's way of fobbing you off so they don't have to deal with the issue it really annoys me.
Well i can't say you have raynauds until you see the rheumo but i'd say 80% with the cold hands and those feelings plus you get pain with it, i'd say you have Raynauds but we're not doctor's on here to say so positively and for a start off your anemia wants sorting out incase that drops to low and there is a strong possibility of SLE which i have and a good many member's it affects your joints organs and can give off some severe pain.
They may be saying your ANA is negative but so many of us have stated this before if you do have Lupus it loves stress and depression it kicks your symptoms into hurting you more and it is terrible for fluctuating your bloods in other words you may have something but it can make the readings say negative, it took 6mths for my anaemia to show it's true colours.
Just don't let them mess you about in this state and pain your in...write down your symptoms your having and also your main points you need to put across and also about your ANA test, as alot of us when we get to see them your mind can fire blanks off, so i do suggest this strongly and other's member's will besides.
I'm adding to links below for Raynauds and SLE for you to read incase it helps with what your suffering.
www.medicinenet.com › ... › arthritis az list › systemic lupus index
Hugs Terry xxx