Hi MawMaw! Welcome to WHL! There is actually a "sticky" (means it is at the top of the page and never moves) the Newly Diagnosed thread that gives all of the symptoms. I am going to post that link at the bottom of this page.
Your doctor appears to have a very smug attitude about Lupus. I may be wrong because he knows your situation. Maybe you have never been sick and the tests were run just during a normal check up (although most of the tests run when looking to rule out Lupus are not run during a normal check up) and you haven't been ill at any time. If, however, you have been having symptoms for a prolonged period of your life or serious symptoms for a shorter amount of time, then I think it is your job to go up to your doctor and whap the heck out of him! LOL Seriously, it is not like you are 98 and not knowing what symptoms, if any, you have had in the last few years, I really am ticked he dismissed you like that!
Anyway... welcome to the WHL family! We are really glad that you are here.