I'm so sorry to hear this. I have the lupus anticoagulant antibody that can cause me to have miscarriages in the 8th or 9th month of pregnancy. hopefully i will be able to get pregnant. i don't wish the loss of a child on anyone. i'm so sorry. thoughts and prayers always.
So sorry for your loss. Praying for your broken heart. Glad you decided to join this forum. You will find people who care and understand the heartbreak of life with lupus.
Love and Hugs,
so sorry for your loss.
Father in heaven, be on Natashia and guide and comfort her in these trying times and if it be Your will bless her with a healthy child when You and her are ready. Bless this family. In Your Sons glorious name, Jesus Christ, Amen.
God Bless, sincerly, JIm.
Never be scared to try. I used to think that miscarriage/stillbirth was the worst thing thing that could happen to me, then it did and with family and God I made it through. It's not easy but it will be worth it. :9:
Originally Posted by MicRoMediC
God Bless you, Natasha...this is so much to bear. I know it too well, unfortunately. I had five miscarriages before I was blessed with my daughter. The longest I carried was 22 weeks, and the shortest was 19 weeks. Every time, I died a little more inside...but I kept my heart open and my eyes to the sky. He has a reason for everything...and I know this isn't what you want to hear (I certainly didn't want to hear it)...but it's true.
I am lifting you and your family up in prayer...know that He loves you and that we love you, too.
I remember a hymn
"Nobody knows the trouble I've seen...nobody knows but Jesus...."
Trust that he knows your sorrow and that he will heal your pain. You are among faithful friends here. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and with your angel.
I am so sorry for your loss, I will continue the prayers for you and your baby's daddy.
"I have loved you with an everlasting Love; Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you"
Oh im so sad to hear of your loss my friend.Oh such a deep sad time.My thoughts are with you and i send you gentle hugs n love.We are all here for you.
lots of love
I wish I knew the right words or thoughts to take away your pain. I am terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Your family on heaven and on earth is in my prayers.
Not what I expected
A visit to the OB's office today revealed our baby my have had a chromosonal abnormality. This is so not what I expected to hear. Good news is they were not able to link the loss to Lupus and I was not flaring and APS tests still came back negative. But now my husband and I have to go thru some genetic testing. But my husband has 2 children from a previous relationship that are healthy, so the problem may still lay with me. Unfortunately if this is a genetic problem I will still have to endure a very high possibility of fetal demise in future pregnancies with no real way to prevent it. Either way I will just have to let go and let God and trust that his will is the way. Thank you for your continued prayers. I go back to work next week and will definately need the strength.