Oh i am pleased mate you've got support refering your parent's and your mom being disabled will be a worry to your dad now because of him having the cancer...Lifes so bloody cruel at times.
There's been alot of grief and hotache in my family down the line, so besides myself and illnesses i've seen alot with family members besides friends and my hubby last year was on serious treatment for 6mths cancer cells on his liver they found that when they did his gallbladder and i had to watch him alot because the side affects was terrible and they want him to start another new lot the end of the year coming out on the market as the other meds didi'nt remove them, the specialist as given him 5yrs just over and he wants to have him added to the list at the QE, Birmingham for a liver transplant.
The specailist he see's is the one i'm going to about my tumour as he knows my background going with ste.
What a life i say mary, nothing but full time worry xxxxxxxxx
God Terry you've also had your fair share of troubles sometimes I wonder if there is a god ????? Life is bloody hard enough without adding more stress and worry just seems to be one thing after another keep in touch Love M.x.
Mary i ah i'm not a believer in god such because it does make me wonder, why do so many good people get hurt so much.
When ste saw his specialist it was when i was starting the plaquenil last time, i told the specialist i wow bother with it ste's more important putting ste before myself like you with Alan and straight away he said no you need to be sorted also and ste can have a break and we'll see how you go in between.
Half the time i walk about holding my side with pain off my liver and then ste's at it...i dow think we'd get much at a car boot sale mate.lol
With everything i've gone through if i dropped dead tonight, i've often said to ste i'd like my body to go to research with what's happened and they find out what the drugs do to the system and if i thought i was helping with info regarding other people i'd rather my body go that way.
I'll keep intouch mary and i hope you keep ok and eat woman as he'll have his eye on ya.lol but in general i really hope Alan goes fine for you both and the cancer is'nt to bad yet with your dad and they're able to help him.
My heart goes out to you mary...as i do deeply understand.
All my love to you Terry xxxxxxxxx
Thankyou so much for my Angel it is beautiful you have made a very dull day in Scotland a very bright day now.xxxx Love M.x.
Just keep we updated when you have time now, with such alot still going on.
Love Terry xxxxx
Not too bad a day today just one relatively small seizure a lot of cramping causing him a lot of pain but other than that he's had quite a good day hope you are well Love Mary.x.
I am pleased he only had a slight one but had a farely good day but seizures do give me the cramp so it may be off that and i hope your keeping well.
Mary i've had alot of pain off my lungs today and my liver been giving me some going over but i think my operation is slowly healing now and they asked me to have a swab to double check incase the Lupus may have caused an infection and that came back clear, so that's less worry.
You takecare mate and i hope the road for Alan concerning the seizures goes up hill from now on my friend.
Love to you both Terry xxx
good to hear alan is better now, than he was a week ago.
how are you? rested?
eating 3 square meals a day lol
Ha Ha funny Steve!!! Yes im ok im eating a little not sleeping too well but on top of everything else going on with Alan my dad got told he has cancer a few days ago so its still a worrying time for all of us as my sister died when she was 37 from breast cancer so we automatically think the worst don't we my dad has a tumour on his kidney but they think it may have spread elsewhere so we just need to wait and see when they operate.I am pleased to say that Alan has been quite good a few tremors and a few small(ish) seizures but nothing too major he's having terrible cramping pains in his legs,hands and arms mostly don't know whats causing that and since going back on the Mycophenolate he has had nausea and diarrhoea which he didnt have before but other than that he's not too bad considering.We are heading down to England on Monday for a well deserved holiday I have booked a cottage for a week and hope the break will do us all some good.Take Care M.x.