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    Hi Saysusie, thanks for all your help mate & have a smashing weekend. Luv Terri xxx

  2. Aww, that was sweet....I hope you are able to enjoy some of your holiday. We can chat when you get back. Me, managing life...all aspects of it. t least this moment....Be safe..Hugs and Love.
  3. I enjoyed too...my days are unscheduled but feel so full of randomness. Anytime is a right time. How was rehearsal? Hugs with love...
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    That explains so much. I couldn't remember your ever saying that you had 3 children, just 2. I figured it was my fogginess forgeting. Funny how some people who are family by blood look less like us than our family by choice. *smiley face*
    I think the trip you are referring to is the cruise I am trying to plan for next year??? That's not firmed up yet. There are a few hitches we are stuck on at the moment. Hopefully that will be resolved this weekend. I am going away this weekend but just on a short roadtrip to my older sister's - she's one of those family by choice people - and she lives about 2.5hrs away. What are you doing this weekend?
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    Hello Lovely Lady! I just saw one of your pictures with Diana pop up on the home page and wanted to say hello. I guess I didn't realize right away that there was such an age gap between your daughters but I really see the resemblence between the two. My sister and I are 10 years apart and the funny thing is someone thought this summer I was only 3 years older than her. I'd prefer to think they thought I was looking younger than she looked older. I hope you are doing well and staying at peace.
  6. continued... ...the casseroles stopped coming long ago. Meaning my family in Seattle don't stop in anymore....life goes on. My family in Michigan call often. I feel so alone...and Bola was my best friend. I feel so lost when I go look for him, to tell him about what I am going through when it is about him....it is like an out of body experience. I can't do what was so natural for me. I am not ready to talk to him in heaven. I ache, I want the pain to go away...trying to find ways to cope. To perceive things differently....thank you for loving me. Hugs with love...
  7. Saysusie, Saysusie....my head is so full, yet no words come out. Thank you so much....I know, I am in your thoughts even when I don't see (read) you. I know another person's loss can bring upon a person past loss. I understand...I thought of you, your Laurie...your post from several years ago how you felt...I am so sorry... I lost my Mom, but if felt like nothing of this magnitude. I can only imagine a loss of a child. I don't know what to do. My lease is up April 30, packing, Bola had no will. Accounts in his name only...his car... Getting everything transferred to me...dealing with auto, life insurances...so much, so fast and not at my pace...learning as I go. Really too much for one person...
  8. I really don't know how I am doing....vicious circle of emotions and the moments of my normalcy are few. If more than a few that is due to the tiny tine pills....sedatives and sleep aides. I am paralyzed with fear most days. Some days I can function with the fear. My belly and chest are in knots. I can laugh, but my usual is a rainbow shaped mouth without the ray of colors...frown. Trying to figure who am I without the we. As with Lupus, I pray for a better day tomorrow. Learning to live without Bola. I miss him so, so much. Muah, muah...Love, hugs..ME
  9. Oh, I just laughed at a message I posted last year to you. if you click view conversation, you will see it....it says' Muah, Muah..like the French do.' I wonder did she think French kissing..lol. I meant one cheek, then the other....Muah..Muah.
  10. Hi you....feeling low? Me too? Head hugs....squeeeze.....did it pop?
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Married for 30+ years. Professional Singer - Moderator/Administrator at WHL
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Victorville, California
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Retired Law-Enforcement

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by Saysusie on 02-15-2013 at 01:07 PM
I know many of you have been wondering about my absence, so I thought that I would pop in to write this blog to share with all of you. Right now, I am facing a challenge as I've been diagnosed with breast cancer. This diagnosis has been an upheaval in my life and a traumatic one for all of my family and friends. As you can imagine, I have not been able to function properly since the diagnosis. As such, I have not been here because I felt so useless and unable to provide much support, comfort,

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The holidays and stress

by Saysusie on 12-22-2011 at 05:31 AM
Hello WHL Family;
As we all know, stress is one of our biggest enemies and I know that, with the holidays upon us, many of us are feeling (and dealing with) additional stress. Wherever there is stress, we often find that there is also a bit of anger, some resentment, and often feelings of powerlessness.
I just want to remind everyone that the truth is: No one, but ourselves, has authority over how we feel. In all stressful situations, we have the choice of how we will react to them.

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It Never Gets Easier

by Saysusie on 10-03-2011 at 09:47 PM
Hello WHL Family; It is October, again. October 2011 marking 12 yrs since the loss of my sweet Lauri. I suspect that this October will be a rather difficult month for me because I have had so many health challenges heretofore and now the stress of having to acknowledge another birthday that my sweet daughter is not here to celebrate; well, it is not helping my physical health at all.
I know that my health deteriorates each and every year at this time and, intellectually, I have made that

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Faith Of The Heart!

by Saysusie on 01-13-2011 at 02:29 PM
Dear WHL Family;
It has been quite a while since I posted a Blog. However, I just wanted to share some of my thoughts about faith, love, and loss.
Each year, around the holiday season, I and my family fall into a dark abyss from October until January. These months represent our daughter's (Lauri's) birthday month..Thanksgiving without her, the anniversary of her passing (12/10), her wedding anniversary (12/13), and finally Christmas and New Year's without her.
No matter

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Another New WHL Home!!

by Saysusie on 01-01-2010 at 03:08 PM
Hello Dear WHL Family;
Do you realize that it was February 17, 2009 when I posted a blog about our then new WHL site provided by Conrad. I talked about our exhilaration as we explored the new site and how we were able to forget our illness for those moments that we spent playing in the arcade, uploading pictures, exploring new capabilities of the site, etc.
I also mentioned that "static" was something that Conrad would NEVER allow! Was I right??? Here we are, less

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