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    THANK YOU SO MUCH Carlotta. You touched me and made me feel a bit better. Things are still up and down with her right now.The vet gave her meds and said we arent "hurting her" by "waiting I gues you could say. Shes not in pain he believes and is still as perky as she can be considering.All 3 are old. I KNOW it happens BUT it doesnt make it any easier. AWWWWW, SAD about Lexie. BUT, as you said SHE is with her LAURI now. SWEET. Its nice to know she "went" in her sleep.PEACEFUL...Hope you are OK DEAR FRIEND. Please take care of YOU and talk later gator...LOVE YOU SO MUCH Carlotta XXXOOO
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    Hi CARLOTTA!!! Gosh I MISS YOU.....SORRY YOU have had a rough time of "IT" lately dear friend...Hope its a bit better for you...Im dealing with one of my 3 "furry babies" dying now along with some pretty BAD flares.....Its so UPSETTING to see her slowly drifting away from us..UGH...Its also making papas death FRESH all over again from the day we found his body....PAIN PAIN PAIN.....Calli (my furry baby) just looks at me with this "LONGING FOR HER MOMMY to make her BETTER" look....OMG Carlotta, AHHHHHHHHHHH....I am starting sessions with a new therapist though..She seems very EMPATHETIC and SYMPATHETIC to my NEEDS...I will share more later..Im drained..LOVE to YOU CARLOTTA...XXXXOOOO
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    LOVE YOU CARLOTTA.....Hope you are well....The family too of course...I have much going on in my life right now that is very overwhelming along with being very ill...otherwise I would be around more....MISS YOU! XXXOOO
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    Loving YOU and THINKING of YOU all the time Carlotta! Ive had some rough months and TODAY even rougher BUT, wanted to pop in to say HELLO.... Hope all is well with YOU and the family dear FRIEND...LOVE and HUGS XXXOOO
  5. Who is celebrating a birthday today? Happy Birthday, Carlotta...Hugs with love to the Birthday Gurl....ox
  6. Just a Mwah...today with a tight, gentle long hug. I am sorry, honey bunny. I wish I could change it for you.
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    Hello beautiful friend...Oh how I needed your words Carlotta.I am in such a BAD WAY about papa..I am so HAPPY to HEAR what you wrote me.THANK YOU.I HAVE to find a therapist who GETS ME..And YES I too have had to let go of friendships since he died. im so DRAINED and OVERWHELMED..THANK YOU for your understanding and your friendship unconditionally..LOVE YOU SO MUCH..Jeannette XXXOOO
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    YOU are LOVED MORE CARLOTTA!!!! HAH!!!! THANK YOU for your SWEET SWEET WORDS!!!!! I feel so GOOD when i read them..My therapist would get mad at me because he says I cant rely on others for happiness or to feel good...I agree to a point...BUT...WE are only human and who DOESNT want to feel/be loved..right? Hes never been married and he has never had kids so sometimes I think he CANT relate to what I KNOW I NEED and WANT..Especially considering I feel that whole "not enough" feeling almost every day for one reason or another..I am still battling it at times..UGH...Love you and Adore you and HUGGING YOU!!XXXOOO
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    HI Carlotta!!!!! I think you misunderstood whatever is is I wrote about my papas pics/things etc..I too am LIKE YOU..I HAVE to have a part of my papa in EVERY ROOM of my home as well {like you with Lauri}...I just have a HARD time looking at his pictures (which are all over in every room) for a long time because I cry and cry..I JUST WANT TO SEE HIM again..ALIVE..WALKING..TALKING..UGH Carlotta..some days are SO HARD..Im just not able to look at pics for more than a second or 2..I even made 4 shadow boxes for some rooms..His "things" that made him papa...HIS favorite pen,magnet,magnifying glass,mug,magazine etc....Oh how I am SO SAD sometimes..I dohope you &the family are as well as can be DEAR FRIEND..Love and Hugs XXXOOO
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    Oh how your WORDS COMFORT ME SO Carlotta.............ADORE YOU SO VERY MUCH.........I will msg you more I want to tell you later.......LOVE YOU MY DEAR FRIEND......... XXXOOO
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Married for 30+ years. Professional Singer - Moderator/Administrator at WHL
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by Saysusie on 02-15-2013 at 01:07 PM
I know many of you have been wondering about my absence, so I thought that I would pop in to write this blog to share with all of you. Right now, I am facing a challenge as I've been diagnosed with breast cancer. This diagnosis has been an upheaval in my life and a traumatic one for all of my family and friends. As you can imagine, I have not been able to function properly since the diagnosis. As such, I have not been here because I felt so useless and unable to provide much support, comfort,

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The holidays and stress

by Saysusie on 12-22-2011 at 05:31 AM
Hello WHL Family;
As we all know, stress is one of our biggest enemies and I know that, with the holidays upon us, many of us are feeling (and dealing with) additional stress. Wherever there is stress, we often find that there is also a bit of anger, some resentment, and often feelings of powerlessness.
I just want to remind everyone that the truth is: No one, but ourselves, has authority over how we feel. In all stressful situations, we have the choice of how we will react to them.

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It Never Gets Easier

by Saysusie on 10-03-2011 at 09:47 PM
Hello WHL Family; It is October, again. October 2011 marking 12 yrs since the loss of my sweet Lauri. I suspect that this October will be a rather difficult month for me because I have had so many health challenges heretofore and now the stress of having to acknowledge another birthday that my sweet daughter is not here to celebrate; well, it is not helping my physical health at all.
I know that my health deteriorates each and every year at this time and, intellectually, I have made that

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Faith Of The Heart!

by Saysusie on 01-13-2011 at 02:29 PM
Dear WHL Family;
It has been quite a while since I posted a Blog. However, I just wanted to share some of my thoughts about faith, love, and loss.
Each year, around the holiday season, I and my family fall into a dark abyss from October until January. These months represent our daughter's (Lauri's) birthday month..Thanksgiving without her, the anniversary of her passing (12/10), her wedding anniversary (12/13), and finally Christmas and New Year's without her.
No matter

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Another New WHL Home!!

by Saysusie on 01-01-2010 at 03:08 PM
Hello Dear WHL Family;
Do you realize that it was February 17, 2009 when I posted a blog about our then new WHL site provided by Conrad. I talked about our exhilaration as we explored the new site and how we were able to forget our illness for those moments that we spent playing in the arcade, uploading pictures, exploring new capabilities of the site, etc.
I also mentioned that "static" was something that Conrad would NEVER allow! Was I right??? Here we are, less

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