Im so happy to hear back from you! You are so SPECIAL and im so glad to hear your wife is "stuck with you"! XXXXXXXXXX
We know more than MOST Drs! You will go through many BAD ones BUT there will come GOOD ONES eventually. KEEP LOOKING until YOU BOTH are satisfied. It took us yrs before we accumulated our SHORT LIST of GOOD DRs. It is a lifestyle change, not a losing battle. You will be OK. She will have to make MANY changes (you both will) BUT with the LOVE you have for one another IT WILL WORK OUT in it's own way. I'm here if you need to talk or have questions as well as the others. We are one big happy LUPUS FAMILY! Now you and your wife are part of it!!! WHL is WONDERFUL and it will HELP you. It made a difference for me and my husband. GOOD LUCK and Keep being who you are! Hugs to you and your lovely wife XXXXXXXXXX
I just had to stop by and say HI and WLECOME Craig! I read your thread and you remind me of my husband. YOu are the BEST thing for your wife right now in more ways than you know. She is very LUCKY to have you and i'm sure she knows it. You hear stories on here about husbands being cruel and even leaving their wives because of this disease. Like you my husband has been by my side EVERY STEP of the way. He IS MY ROCK as you are hers. BUT i do understand and AGREE that YOU BOTH have Lupus. We say that as well. It effects BOTH of you and everyone else that loves her. Educate yourselves as much as you can, it HELPS.