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  1. I lived in TN & worked for Dr. Yium (a Kidney dr.) lucky for me because he knew what it was as soon as he seen the rash & I went to the dr. the next day & got the bad news. TN gets really cold in the winter & as you know cold hurts very badly so I get the crazy idea to head south (Florida) maybe I would not hurt so bad, well, here we are (husband & I) in sunny warm Florida where I thought I'd be better only one problem, my husband hates it here, we have been here for 10 years & instead of getting better, it's getting a lot worse & the stress of him being unhappy is taking a toll on me. I don't know what to do. I know the sun is bad but it makes me feel so good & that is another thing I don't understand, aren't Lupus patients suppose to avoid sun? I love my husband with all my being but I don't know how to deal with him not being happy, I feel we should just move back to TN where he is happy & I'm cold. Is there anyone that can give me advice on this?
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What to do???

by tam1394 on 04-07-2009 at 08:56 AM
I was living in TN when I my dr. informed me that Lupus was why I was hurting so bad, that was 17 yrs. ago. I was really sick & tired of hurting all winter (TN is cold in winter), my bones hurt so bad I would just want to scream & cry so I got the great idea to move south (Florida) with the hopes that my bones would not hurt because FL is sunny & warm. As we know sun is suppose to be bad for us but I ask why does the sun make me feel so good? So we moved & have lived here for 10

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