What to do???
by, 04-07-2009 at 08:56 AM (706 Views)
I was living in TN when I my dr. informed me that Lupus was why I was hurting so bad, that was 17 yrs. ago. I was really sick & tired of hurting all winter (TN is cold in winter), my bones hurt so bad I would just want to scream & cry so I got the great idea to move south (Florida) with the hopes that my bones would not hurt because FL is sunny & warm. As we know sun is suppose to be bad for us but I ask why does the sun make me feel so good? So we moved & have lived here for 10 yrs & no, my bones don't hurt as bad, not like there but I've got a major problem: my husband hates it here & it is taking a toll on me, the stress of his unhappiness is not good for me or us, the strain is bad & I don't know what to do. I can stay here & watch my husband be unhappy & risk that splitting us up or I can suck it up & move back to TN so he can be happy. How unfair is this situation? Can anyone help me? Please advise needed. Thank you