Eeyore Days Part 2
by, 12-10-2013 at 08:19 PM (301 Views)
Where do I begin and how do I say this. I don't know if it's selfish or not. We had a beautiful day today no problems at all, then I made the simple mistake of going into the kitchen, Mom walked away and left me there to watch over what was on the stove. According to her I took it off the stove too soon and dinner wasn't hot enough to suit her. Mind you the food has to be hot the plates warmed and everything on the table at six. She then proceeds to spent the entire evening harping on everything that I supposed did wrong. I broke one thing, a bottle of gravy. However all the dishes she broke and the chips in them now, we're caused by me. I know her mind is going and I'm trying so hard to go with the flow. I just am getting to the point where I'm not sure I can do this all on my own.
But how do I bring up assisted living, how do I say it's time to go into assisted living by family so that I have help nearby. They are so set it their ways and set here in Florida. How do I say,why don't we move up to Georgia by Julie and David. Dare I even go there......... Am I being selfish??????
I'm stressing and I know it's bad for me. I don't know where to turn. All the advice I get has my head going in circles.
Tonite I just want to cry, but the tears as usual don't come