View Full Version : Venting... you don't have to reply

04-19-2010, 01:19 PM
I'm ranting about my husband because I want to scream at him today... To avoid a fight I'm writing my emotions here other than telling him what I think and feel. He REALLY wont like that. Probably most of you out here have had one of these days with a spouse, significant other, or a family member.
My husband comes home and wants me to make him lunch. Well he gets pissy because we're out of lunch meat and we just have peanutbutter and jelly. Anyways... I'm in so much pain I can barely stand. I've been busy all afternoon making dinner taking my oldest to school and my youngest to the dentist and to a specialist for speech and hearing. We walked. My feet feel like there's a lead weight on them to begin with. I told him I'm not feeling well I my body is on fire I want to sit. He expects me to do everything for him. He's sitting down and so am I trying to relax while crocheting. He has the freaking (sorry for the language I'm so teed off right now I can spit) gal to demand to go get him a soda from the garage while he's capable enough to get off his sorry butt and get it himself. He rolls his eyes at me.
To top it all off he makes it a compition. I hurt too.... Waaaaaaaahhhhhh... "I can't (more like I don't want to) take the dog out I want to sit." I just want to sit too but I've got to take care of a four year old all day and then go to a Cub Scout Den meeting and teach nine year olds. Yes he's a mechanic, Yes he works hard. I'm not denying that. But heck for one GD moment think about how I feel. Because this stress makes me feel worse.

04-19-2010, 02:35 PM
So sorry you are having a rough day. I dont have to deal with mine because he is a truckdriver, but I know there are days he doesnt get that I am just tired and dont feel like chatting on the phone with him till midnight or that I am exhausted from chasing the kids all day. I really wish he could walk in my shoes just one day, so he could understand how much energy it takes just to get out of bed let alone get everyone else up to.

04-19-2010, 04:05 PM
you want me to come over and smack him upside the head??? LOL! :)

04-19-2010, 06:28 PM
Sorry to hear about your husband. I know how you feel because of my parents. Everyone in the house has pain problems, so it's kind of an indurance test after shopping. While my mom and dad put the groceries away, I have to pull in cases of water and soda (and fight my dad away from doing so that my mom doesn't yell at me) which makes a bad flare worse. I hope that you can get some good rest in without being bothered to do something that can be easily done by someone else with half as much pain.